Archive for February, 2009

Essentials Of Kissing

Moist and Soft Lips 
While kissing be sure to keep your lips moist and tender. Don’t wear too much lipstick unless you want your boyfriend to wear the lipstick too. Cracked lips is also a turn down and try to keep your lips as tender and soft as possible. Moist lips make it easier to kiss your partner and it also enhances the experience.

Great Breath 
While kissing the most important thing is to have a great breath. Make sure to brush and floss before going out on a date. Use breath fresheners to have great breath at all times. If you have eaten anything on your date then keep a gum or mint on hand. But please don’t keep anything in your mouth when you are kissing.

Keeping your eyes open shows unfaithfulness so just before your lips close your eyes. Feel the kiss through your heart and totally devote yourself to the kiss. Some people find kissing with their eyes open quite exciting but you can try that out only after you have known each other for a while.

Many couples when they kiss for the first time find it difficult to decide as to where to keep their hands. Actually there are many ways you can use your hands. The most romantic way is to keep one hand on your partner’s waist and one the neck. Other way is to take the partners face into both of your hands and then run your fingers into their hair.

Stand close to each other. You can be in his arms. If you are kissing while being seated, sit close to one another. Needless to say but you have to tilt your head slightly in order to kiss your partner. If you can see which way your partner’s head is tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction.essentials kissing


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Kissing Explained


A first kiss should always be done while the two of you are alone. This will help to avoid any unnecessary nervousness and embarrassing situations.

The best type of kiss is one that uses different variations… 

such as starting with a small kiss, working into a French Kiss, maybe sucking on your partner’s upper or lower lip…  


And don’t just leave kisses to the lips. 

Kiss their cheeks, their chin or their eyelids. kiss_eye1

This can be very seductive and romantic.

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Now that you have asked her out for dinner, let us proceed to the next step, which is absolutely essential if you want to make yourkiss beloved realize how much they mean to you. Everyone looks forward to a memorable first kiss. Kissing for the first time sure gives some people butterflies in the stomach. So worry not. We bring you some great tips for kissing the first time. 

Make Sure You are Alone

One of the most important points to be kept in mind in order to make your first kiss memorable is to be all alone. You wouldn’t want to lose concentration because of too many people around and make a mess out of it. 

Have a Good Breath

It is very important that you have a good breath. Not only does it make you feel good, it will make your partner realize that you care about these little things that count a lot in making a moment special. In case you cant floss, make sure you carry some mint with you always. 

Don’t Ask 

Never ask when you want to kiss. The feeling should come simultaneously to both of you. Else it will look more like obliging or forcing. The essence of your first kiss will be lost and you wouldn’t be able to enjoy it fully. 


It is very important to relax and take it easy. The moment should seem like it is in slow motion to make it last. The worse thing you can do is moving too fast and make the whole thing seem too rushed. It is the biggest turn off for a woman. So just relax and take it easy and slow. 

The Right Moment

Make sure the right moment arrives before you proceed to kiss the other person. Too soon, and it will look as though you are desperate. Too late, and the moment flies away. So be ready and enjoy when the time comes. 

Keep Your Eyes Closed

To feel the magic of your first kiss take over, just close your eyes and feel the moment instead of staring at it. It not only adds the magic to your experience, but also makes you feel less weird.

The Right Place

The place where you have your first kiss also counts a lot. The place shouldn’t be cluttered and should be appealing to the eyes. It should have a touch of sensuality along with comfort.

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1 .Get your lips in proper kissing order. The most kissable lips are smooth and sweet, not dry, chapped and tense. The guidelines in How to Get Kissable Lips will help both men and women make their lips look more attractive and inviting. Here are the basics:

2 .Exfoliate your lips with sugar to make them soft.

Moisturize your lips to keep them soft.

Relax your lips by parting them ever so slightly.

3 .Look inviting and approachable! You might not realize that you’ve giving off a “leave me alone” vibe, so read up on How to Look Approachable. Uncross those arms, keep your hands away from your face, make eye contact, and smile! Similarly, read his or her body language – is this person into you? Or do they seem uncomfortable?

4 .Break the “touch barrier.” Touch the person lightly on the arm or shoulder when you’re talking. Just make it a quick, innocent touch and don’t make a big deal out of it. Holding hands is also a good way to break the touch barrier. (Guys, you may want to read How to Touch a Girl for more ideas on how to break the touch barrier without overstepping boundaries.) If everything is going well, try kissing the person on the cheek. If you find your lips near their ear (like if you’re hugging someone from behind, or whispering something to them) go in for a gentle kiss on the cheek and see how they respond.

5 .Look at their lips. Make eye contact and then move your gaze briefly down to the person’s lips. Then move your eyes back up to meet theirs and smile demurely. You don’t have to be really obvious about it. Many people will take the hint, especially if they’ve read one of the many articles that lists this as a sign that a person wants to kiss or be kissed.

6 .Approach for the kiss. Depending on your starting position you may need only to turn your head, or you may need to lean in a bit. You may want to use your hands to gently urge your partner’s body or head into position—you just want to guide his or her movement a little, you don’t want to forcibly move any part of his or her body or hold your partner in an uncomfortable position—but in general you just want to position yourself correctly and let your partner meet you. As you near your partner’s lips, maintain eye contact.

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